Greetings Japan Guy readers! I’ve got a special treat for you today.
I just finished up an email interview with my friend and long-term Japan resident, Abasa Phillips. I really wanted to introduce all of you to Abasa because he’s been living in Japan for many years now and has been studying the language for many more years.
While I enjoy talking about teaching, but it's important to branch out a bit. It's important to show that teaching isn't the only road to success here in Japan. Abasa is one of the first foreigners I ran into, that wasn’t a teacher, that really schooled me on what life can be for a foreigner in Japan.
Well, actually can’t say I ran into Abasa. I did martial arts training with a relative of his, back in Atlanta, at the Tony Young All-Star Karate Academy. I also got to do a bit of martial arts training with Abasa, too at Axis Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.
Abasa happens to be an all-around good guy and a personal hero of mine. When I was fresh off the plane, he took me under wing. Abasa not only showed me the importance of learning Japanese, but helped me understand how enriching it can be to embrace another culture.
Please check out the interview I did with him. I thought there was some really great advice in this interview! I hope you get as much from it as I did:
I set up Japanese online payment solutions for overseas e-commerce companies.
I originally came to Japan as an exchange student. When I came back in 04 to look for a job, I used those connections here, as well as connections in the US to find a job in Tokyo. Since then I had a window of opportunity to start my own business and have been doing that ever since.
If you want to find a job other than teaching English, you have to hang out with people that do other things besides teach English.
I was a bit freaked out by how jaw-dropped a group of young girls from Osaka were after I gave them directions to the station.
I was on the 8th floor of a fairly new building and it swayed like I never knew a building was capable of swaying.
I speak Japanese so I was able to get news updates as they were released, and didn’t have to rely on the foreign media wich was riddled with exaggerations, scare tactics, and flat out lies which in my opinion created a panic. I also had/have a pretty good escape plan to Southern Japan if it ever came to that.
The scariest was when the quake hit, and I thought the building I was in was going to collapse.
Yes, I am married. I haven’t had any real challenges thus far since we don’t have children yet, but as a word of advice, in international relationships couples come from different cultures which generally have very different views on what marriage is. Make sure you are on the same page with your partner before getting married!
I have no idea. I don’t think in terms of countries per se anymore.
I would say a low 9. I never stopped studying. When I began studying Japanese I thought that I would have to study for 4 years and I would be good enough, but I never felt “good enough”. I have been studying for 13 years now.
I’ve been out with you before and seen your Japanese skills at work. Pretty freakin’ amazing.
-Start at a language school or in college.
-Learn all of the basic grammar and vocabulary.
-Carry a notebook, and jot down words that you don’t understand, and then review them before bed.
-Get Japanese friends that share the same interests, and hang out with them as often as possible. Same gender friends are very important.
-Study 10 kanji daily, and on a strict schedule.
-Get a Japanese girlfriend that doesn’t speak English.
-Read Japanese as much as possible.
Polite grammar is difficult.
After I learned 2,000 kanji. This is not as difficult as it seems actually. I learned 22/day for 3 months. It took 1 hour after I woke up, and 1 hour before bed for review. My Japanese ability easily doubled in just those 3 months, and I was able to read newspapers, books, and manga which had a snowball effect.
Your life will be 100 times more fulfilling. Imagine living in the US without speaking English. Not being able to go to shows, watch stand-up comedy, watch movies, buy concert tickets, shop online, meet friends that have the same interests that don’t speak your language, dip into any restaurant and order whatever you want etc etc.. If you only speak English, you will get Japanese friends, but many times your friendship is based on just that one aspect and it will be difficult to develop a deeper relationship.
Where to begin...
Jobs – since I can speak to clients/coworkers in Japanese.
Apartments – since I can negotiate with the real estate agent, and they can negotiate with the apartment owner. Even if they don’t accept foreigners, many will let it slide if you can speak Japanese.
I was invited to be on TV because of my language ability.etc.
If for example you happened to meet the most pig-headed, racist, person with a chip on their shoulder in a bar, you could turn them in to your biggest fan the second you show them the respect of speaking to them in their language at an advanced level. When you speak, everyone within earshot will understand that you made a big sacrifice to learn their language, and how much love you had for their country to be able to make that sacrifice. Whereas if you only speak English, it kind of feels as if you are taking advantage of their hospitality.
I wouldn’t be able to eat at the restaurants that I eat at, have the job that I do, live in the apartment that I live in, or meet the amazing wife that I have.
七転八起 (Fall Seven Times Get Up Eight)。or 猿も木から落ちる (Even Monkeys Fall From Trees)。
If you have any questions for Abasa please feel free to leave them in the comments section, and if he isn’t able to drop by to answer questions, I’ll compile a list and send them to him.
Abasa, thank you so much for taking the time to do this. I really appreciate you.
Please feel free to leave them in the comments section below. If he isn’t able to drop by to answer questions, I’ll compile a list and send them to him.
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